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Living Library: Voices of War and Peace

Topic: Values

Emotional Intensity: HIGH

Format: Extended workshop

Source / Author: Adapted from the Living Library methodology (Council of Europe) and trauma-informed youth work practices. This version integrates ethical listening principles, consent-based facilitation, and high-sensitivity safeguards for war-related contexts.


Topic

Values

Also relevant for

Migration, Conflict transformation, Social cohesion, Integration, Trauma & resilience, Iintercultural dialogue

Objective (learning focus)

This Living Library creates a structured and safe space for direct human encounters between young people and individuals who have experienced war, displacement, or peacebuilding work. The workshop aims to replace abstract narratives and stereotypes with lived experiences, fostering empathy, ethical listening, and deeper reflection on values related to peace, dignity, coexistence, and responsibility. It is designed primarily for participants who seek to learn and listen, rather than for those who already identify as experts on the topic.

Target group

  • Age: Young people and young adults (16–30)

  • Profile:

    • Primarily host-community youth and international participants

    • People interested in learning, listening, and reflecting on war, peace, and migration

    Note:
    This format is not primarily intended for Ukrainian participants or people who already possess extensive knowledge and lived experience of the war, as the focus is on learning from lived experience rather than reproducing it within the same group.

Group size

  • Optimal number of participants (Readers): 12–16

  • Optimal number of Books: 4 (recommended minimum: 3; flexible maximum with adaptations)

Timing

  • Total duration: 2.5–3 hours

  • Dialogue rounds:

    • Standard: 4 rounds × 20 minutes

    • If more than 4 Books: reduce rounds to 15 minutes and increase breaks

  • Breaks: short transition breaks + one longer comfort break

Materials Needed

  • Quiet, private room/rooms with movable chairs/tables

  • Tables arranged for small, semi-private conversations

  • Book catalog with short, non-sensational descriptions

  • Conversation cards (optional prompts)

  • Consent and safety forms for Books and Readers

  • Water, tissues, access to a quiet retreat space


Step-by-step guide:

Phase 1 — Orientation & Safety

  • Welcome and framing of the Living Library concept

  • Clear explanation of roles (“Books” and “Readers”)

  • Review of consent, confidentiality, and trauma-sensitive guidelines

  • Emphasis on listening rather than questioning or advising

Phase 2 — Core Experience: Dialogue Rounds

  • Readers are pre-assigned or sign up for Books to ensure balanced groups

  • Each Book meets with a small group of Readers

  • Conversation cards are available as optional support, not requirements

Guiding principles for dialogue:

  • Ethical curiosity

  • Respect for boundaries

Right to silence and emotional pauses

Phase 3 — Meaning-Making & Collective Reflection

  • Extended group debrief in a circle

  • Sharing insights by choice, not obligation

  • Suggested prompts:

    • “What stayed with you the most?”

    • “What value became clearer for you today?”

    • “What do you want to take forward from this experience?”

  • Optional written reflection or shared “values wall”

Phase 4 — Closure & Aftercare

  • Collective gratitude to Books

  • Information about support resources

  • Optional symbolic closing (message for peace, shared word, or quiet moment)


Expected outcomes (for participants)

Individual level:

  • Increased empathy and awareness

  • Deeper reflection on values related to peace and dignity

Group level:

  • Reduced stereotypes and polarisation

  • Strengthened culture of ethical listening

Community level:

  • Greater readiness for inclusive dialogue and coexistence

  • Humanisation of migration and war-affected experiences

Trauma-informed note:

  • Main emotional risks:

    • Emotional overload for Books

    • Secondary trauma or overwhelm for Readers

  • Safety principles:

    • Voluntary participation and right to pause or withdraw

    • No recording without explicit consent

    • Clear boundaries around questions and topics

  • When NOT to use this workshop:

    • With groups lacking facilitation capacity

    • As a casual or entertainment-based activity

    • Without access to emotional support or aftercare

Adaptation (context / intercultural / age)

  • More Books: shorten rounds to 15 minutes and increase breaks

  • Online format: smaller groups, stricter facilitation, optional written prompts

  • Younger participants: fewer rounds, stronger framing and reflection support

  • Shortened version: minimum 2 rounds + structured debrief

  • Optionally use Living Library conversation cards, Consents and Safety Statement for Books and Readers if its needable (addition 1,2)

Recommendations for facilitators

  • The facilitator acts as a guardian of safety, not a moderator of content

  • Avoid framing stories as “success” or “lessons learned”

  • Monitor emotional states of Books and Readers continuously

  • Normalize pauses, emotions, and silence

  • Intervene gently if conversations become extractive or overwhelming


More about Living Library: Key Toolkits, Handbooks & Guidelines

Council of Europe – "Don’t judge a book by its cover! The Living Library Organiser’s Guide"
Widely used foundational guide on planning, recruiting, training, and running Living Library events for youth and community groups.
Access here.

Online Living Library (Young Caritas)
A modern adaptation of the method for online settings, including practical tips for schools, webinars, and a database of video stories ready for educational use.
Access here.

Living Library Booklet (Poland/Eastern Europe)
Extensive practical guide covering question cards, trauma awareness, hosting roles, and event evaluation, with digital and in-person advice.
Access here.

Human Living Library Toolkit (Universities of Hull and Huddersfield)
Focuses on facilitator training, ground rules, and scenario-based learning for boundary-setting, empathy, and challenging situations.
Access here.

Learning for Change – Human Library Facilitation Guide
Practical activities, tips, and staff training recommendations for youth work and social education settings.
Access here.


Additional Resources

Living Library conversation cards are practical tools to help both “Books” and “Readers” navigate conversations, especially for newcomers or those needing inspiration. Cards are typically divided into three color-coded sets for the different conversation phases and can be picked up voluntarily as prompts, not requirements. 

Living Library Cards: Structure and Examples

Green cards (Beginning): Breaking the ice, learning about the “Book.”

“What made you want to participate as a Book?”

“Can you share a value that is important in your life?”

“Is there a stereotype about your background you want to address?”

Orange cards (Middle): Deeper exploration, experience sharing.

“Have your values changed as a result of a life experience?”

“Can you describe a challenging situation where your values were tested?”

“How do you respond when others don’t respect your values?”

Blue cards (End): Closure, reflection, mutual appreciation.

“What have you learned from talking with others about your story?”

“Is there something you wish people understood better about you?”

“How do these conversations influence your view of society?”

Cards can be pre-printed, cut, and placed in bowls on tables or included in a handout for online versions. Alternatively, make a single poster or handout with all prompts visible for review before the session begins. Usage is optional—participants can ignore or use as many cards as they like for inspiration. 

Consent & Safety Statements (optional tool)

The following consent statements are recommended for Living Library formats that address highly sensitive topics such as war, displacement, trauma, or discrimination.

They are not mandatory for every Living Library, but can be used when:

  • the topic involves lived experience of violence, loss, or displacement;

  • the event is public or semi-public;

  • participants do not know each other beforehand;

  • organizers want to emphasize ethical responsibility and emotional safety.

These statements help clarify boundaries, roles, and rights for both Books and Readers, and support a shared culture of care and respect.

How to use consent in practice?

Facilitator tip:

  • For smaller, trusted groups → verbal consent + group agreements may be enough

  • For public, intercultural, or first-time groups → written consent is recommended

  • For high-risk topics → always offer consent forms without pressure to sign


Consent and Safety Statement for Books

"By agreeing to be a Book in this Living Library event, I confirm that:

I am participating voluntarily and understand that I can end any conversation at any time without having to provide a reason.

I have been informed about the event’s format, expected audience, and my right to refuse to answer any question.

My story and personal boundaries will be respected at all times.

I understand that any form of recording (audio, video, photo) is not permitted unless I explicitly consent beforehand.

If I feel emotionally or physically uncomfortable at any time, I have the right to request a break or withdraw from participation.

I understand that emotional reactions are normal, and that I am not expected to share more than I feel ready for.

The organizers will offer support before, during, and after the event to ensure my wellbeing. 

Signature: ___________________________ Date: _______________"

Consent and Safety Statement for Readers

"By joining as a Reader in the Living Library event, I agree to the following:

I will treat each Book with respect, understanding they are sharing real, personal experiences.

I will not record, photograph, or share stories without the Book’s explicit consent.

I will respect the Book’s right not to answer a question and their right to end the conversation at any time.

I understand that violence, offensive language, or behavior that endangers the dignity or wellbeing of the Book may result in my removal from the event in order to protect the safety and dignity of all participants.

I agree to return the Book ‘in the same mental and physical condition as I borrowed them’—respecting their boundaries and dignity throughout

Signature: ___________________________ Date: _______________"

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